mi ritrovai (thisisreal) wrote in lucid_view,
mi ritrovai
thisisreal
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Do you think that it's ever too late to tell someone how you feel?
Do the real feelings ever really go away over time or do they always just linger waiting to be realized again?
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They never leave. It's never too late, just be mindful of timing.
You think?
Even if it's been ages?

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And distance? Would htat be a practical thing that would get int the way? Should you stay quiet then?

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3hr drive.
It's more of a closure thing. We never really talked about it because neither of us was ever really sure about what the other was thinking...but now I know. I just don't know if I should stir it up by saying something.

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thisisreal

13 years ago

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thisisreal

13 years ago

fervor_fatality

13 years ago

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thisisreal

13 years ago

never too late...

just express yourself honestly and like others have said be mindful of timing...
but then i wonder, if you are holding these feelings for awhile, wouldnt one normally feel a sense of guilt wondering if they did the right thing?
Yeah see that's the thing. How do you really know if you're doing the right thing or not. Or is it better to just get it out.
well in any relationship it is important to be honest, no matter how hard it is. from my personal experience i have always told someone what i feel especially when it comes to feelings i have. it can be risky, but it's for the best. and the longer it's held in, the harder it gets for me to turn away from my feelings.
that's very true.
Thank you
i don't think that it's ever too late to share feelings. with-in the past 2 weeks or so i have shared pent-up feelings with at-least 2-3 people(not all the same feelings, heh) and i felt a lot better after doing so. it was like a weight being lifted. i think that feelings will linger on, but they do eventually go away, but not completly, there is always a little something there.
Yeah they do lift a weight. But sometimes I just wonder if it's better to keep the weight to yourself then release yourself and give a different kind of weight to someone you care about.
that is pretty much exactly how i felt. it was really stressing me out and putting me in a lot of emotional pain. my theory was "if i am the only one that's hurting, then that is ok because i know and can control my actions, i can't control anyone elses" but when i was talking to my friend as to what to do he just flat out said "that is a shitty veiw" so then i was like "yeah you know what it is" and i just did it. i didn't even care how the reaction was going to be, i just needed to get it off my sholders.

and then since that one, there has been 1 minor one and another one that was pretty big, but it still worked out ok. there is still one that is going on right now, but i can't do anything since they wont talk to me...

but i think no matter what you will probably feel better if you were to just do it.
never too late...

..."kt" says since we hadn't talked for awhile before she stopped... but then i asked her... had she "really"?... and she didn't stop... like... and now... same damn thing... i know she does.. as;lkdfj;aslk... lol.. we suck...

u and me need to go get some coffee... like... right now... <= )
I know!

Ahhh lets go get coffee. Start driving or bussing and I'll meet you in the middle.
lol... where's the middle?


ill meet u there in 5 minutes lol
Ohio
haha deal!
::highfive and starts sprinting::
Man you were definatly not there in 5minutes. I was totally waiting an hour.
lol
...:tear:

... i procrastinate...

i stopped at a coffee shop on the way... and talked with some ppl for a little while... damn i suck...
haha no worries I met a crazy hobo clown who did a jig for me. lol

fervor_fatality

13 years ago

thisisreal

13 years ago

fervor_fatality

13 years ago

My take on it is seek happiness like it is air. It is never too late and nothing should stop you from trying.

~j
I love that.
It's beautiful